My approach is eclectic but client-centered at its core. I am not the authority but a mirror, a holder of space, a catalyst and a collaborator. Only you have the answers you seek. Together, it is our job to uncover them. In doing so it is not helpful to judge an individual, symptom or situation as ‘bad.’ Symptoms like stress, pain, anxiety, depression and anger can provide important information and an opportunity to grow into a better version of oneself. I find myself most effective with reflective, committed individuals. Some of the tools I use with clients include Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Mindfulness and Mindful Movement.
Cognitive-Behavioral & Acceptance Commitment Therapy
These are types of psychotherapy which emphasize the power of an individual’s thoughts, perspective and attention on their lived experience.
- Develop insight regarding the relationship between your thoughts, feelings & behaviors.
- Observe your thoughts & emotions to gain awareness and self-compassion.
- Shift from achievement-driven thinking to value-driven living.
- Allow therapist feedback and new skills to provide new perspective.
This intervention emphasizes the power of increasing knowledge and awareness of the self. The impact of this work is powerful in creating lasting change.
- Increase insight related to patterns of thought and behavior.
- Explore relationship and coping patterns.
- Neutralize your “story.” Minimizing, avoiding or getting stuck in your story gives it too much power.
- Receive support & guidance to let go of patterns that no longer serve you and explore new possibilities.
Mindfulness & Mindful Movement
These interventions involve directing attention to ones sensory experience in the present moment. Emotions are experienced in the body. Therefore somatic awareness, movement and release can be integral components of emotional healing.
- Get out of your mind and into your body; Increase interoceptive and body awareness.
- Understand the role of physical and emotional release in healing.
- Enhance empathy, self-compassion & self-reflection.
- Prevent burnout and compassion fatigue.
“Can’t complain, wouldn’t do any good if I did!” This seems to be the consensus of generations past who were less expressive about their emotional life. In a way, this sentiment has been reaffirmed by self-help books which explain that negative thinking attracts negativity into one’s life and that life is mostly in one’s perspective. When these ideas are interpreted inflexibly this can become quite counterproductive.
com·plain (km-pln) 1. To express feelings of pain,
dissatisfaction, or resentment...
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Melissa Cramer, LCSW, LCAS, PMH-C
605 West Main St. Ste 203
Carrboro, NC 27510
300 West Earp St.
Holly Springs, NC 27540